I am a 31 year old single mom.Who's party days and always able to keep a vehicle are just memories.I've had to become more grounded now with finances.Because of the consumption of needs & necessecities.I have five children ages;3,5,7,10,14.That were products of a 9.5 yr. fatasy and a 6.5 yr dream that was cheep to purchase for a fool in love.I am sole care provider for my 70 year old grandmother.I am not burdened.In fact we all pray for a vehicle so tht we can go back to family day out.Grandma misses going to the grocery store.Now I always end up catching a ride from friends and family that really dont see why the kids need to go.I am shocked and appauled that trying to break the pattern of parents failing their children that started with my generation around 76',77',and trying to keep grandma's wonderful kids from putting her back in a home,that there are little to no programs or grants for single moms,or the reverse "grandchildren raising grandparents.So what do you do?Pray and keep the faith.